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Kaeru Gaman wrote:If she was trying to press you: "Me or the Photos"
the only correct answer would be: "There's the door, Lady"

No, not really - but she says that she feel uncomfortable knowing that they exists. I think this is really stupid and have compared it with writing a diary. I have asked her, "If I wrote a diary, would I have to destroy the pages there I wrote about my old girlfriends?" She said no and that pictures are a total different issue. I think not!

Froggerprogger wrote:Tell her you just keep them for compassion, because your old girl-friend was far from beeing as wonderful as she...

techjunkie wrote:... she says that she feel uncomfortable knowing that they exists...

I think I know what the point is.

when I was younger I felt uncomfortable with knowing my girlfriend had another friend before,
and when she talked about her experiences, it was twice uncomfortable.

I think your girlfriend is just projecting this feeling on the only physical avaliable thing connected with it - the photos.

destroying the photos will not make her feel better, because it's the fact that you had women before that haunts her.

she has to learn to cope with it.
even if you part some day, she will not have a virgin for the next relationship,
and the question is, if she even wants a virgin.
I think she may feel much more uncomfortable with a man who doesn't know to handle his equipment...

I'd say keep the pictures. They are important to you and if your girl can't handle that then shes probably got wayyyy too much baggage and self-insecurity.

I mean I see where shes coming from in one respect, but as long as you aren't pulling them out in front of her or looking at them longingly and stuff I don't see the big deal.

I will probably destroy some of the pictures, as a symbolic gesture (not the digital once though... ) to make her happy. They really means nothing to me, but it is against my principle to destroy them.

i dont see a big deal in keeping them and i also dont see a big deal in destroying them, personaly i destroyed mine a while ago, not because someone asked me to, but because all of my ex-girlfriends are bitc..

i have only kept pictures of one ex girlfriend, because we are stil good friends, after almost 8 years now. my girlfriend has no problem with it, so everything is fine.

ps: i voted no. if you want to destroy them, you will destroy them, but do it for yourself and not for someone else.

@KG
> the only correct answer would be: "There's the door, Lady"
you forgot: "oh and bring me some beer on the way back."

c ya,
nco2k

Mate, destroy the pictures. I have all I need to remember about my ex-girlfriends stored up in my head .

If you find that your girlfriend have pics about her ex boyfriend... how do you feel about?

Derek wrote:Yeah, when she becomes your wife you will have to lose your pictures, your friends, your nights out... the list goes on and on.

Marriage is a big decision for a man....

...that's becuase it's usually his last....

Unless you get married with her... there's no need to do so.

Don't destroy them! If she's insecure, it's her problem. My current girlfriend has pictures of a boyfriend she had years ago. She would never destroy them and neither would i ask her to; because to be honest it's a part of her history.

Sometimes i look at the old photos of her and her old boyfriend and yes i do sometimes think why the hell does she keep these, but then i think but i keep mine. I keep them because it reminds me of the good times before things went bad and the lovely girls some of them were.

At the end of the day i'm with her NOW and your with your girl now. People's history shouldn't make the slightest bit of difference if you are in love.

As for the videos of old girlfriends.... well, that's a different matter!

Not just the videos, there's the underwear as well...... Whoops, said too much again!

It's time to stop living in the past and get back to reality my friend.
There's nothing worse ten to dwelve on the days that was, thinking of what might have become and what you could have done, in the past. Live in the now, in the future Burn baby, burn

Kale wrote:Don't destroy them! If she's insecure, it's her problem. My current girlfriend has pictures of a boyfriend she had years ago. She would never destroy them and neither would i ask her to; because to be honest it's a part of her history.

Maybe because im married, but i don't think in that way.

I dont want to have pics of my old ex girlfriends... im happy now, im happy with my wife, my kids and my life, my GOOD TIMES are now and here.